Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

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Re: Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

Post by myasian » Fri Dec 30, 2016 1:50 pm

I fell in love with a guy that ended up cheating on me, our relationship was long distance so when I found out he was cheating he said " yes I'm cheating on you and I choose her, she live closer and I need someone to be physically with me" then after about 2 weeks of arguing he told me he was still in love with me and wanted to continue our relationship when we could be together he also told me he wanted me to be the first person he fucked, about a week later I found out he had sex with the girl he dumped me for later I found out that she was pregnant with his kid. She was going to get an abortion until he told her that if she didn't keep the baby there was no point in staying with her because she makes him miserable so he was going to leave her for me so she decided to keep the baby. Long story short this has mentally made me feel like I will never be good engough for anyone and should stop trusting people....yay love

EwwBrooklyn
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Re: Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

Post by EwwBrooklyn » Fri Dec 30, 2016 2:11 pm

dear god the worst things that has ever happened to me was when my dad told me to suck hid dick cause he was held drunk :?

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Re: Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

Post by spiderman » Fri Dec 30, 2016 2:19 pm

last year i started getting weird texts. So i asked this person who they were and if I knew them and they said yes but wouldn't tell me who they were. then I started getting screenshots of conversations that I was having at that time with my friends. Whoever it was cloned my phone and I was so scared

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Re: Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

Post by AgeOfMikey » Fri Dec 30, 2016 4:20 pm

This happened 3 years ago (I was 16)

My girlfriend at the time, Amy, decided to tell the teachers that I sexually assaulted her. Just for the record, I didn't, the furthest we went was kissing, I could never do something that awful. Luckily, I only got two days in isolation from the school. But she wouldn't let up about it. She changed the story from sexual assault to rape once or twice too. She made me apologise to her, which I did, just to stop the shitstorm she was trying to make. So that was that part, then she decides to date my best friend Shelly, that was pretty shit too. She also cheated on me throughout our relationship, I don't even think she was single when we started dating. And to top it off, she still to this very day, spreads lies about me, painting me as some sort of abusive asshole who manipulates people for personal gain. :(

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Re: Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

Post by Epic_Rager » Fri Dec 30, 2016 10:21 pm

Pushing away and losing the girl I consider my soulmate. I'm not going to give up though.. I'm just playing the waiting game..
Eh. I tried.

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Kymiro
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Re: Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

Post by Kymiro » Mon Jan 02, 2017 2:05 pm

Since I am way too lucky when it comes to my entire life, there hasn't happened anything terrible to me yet.

The one and only thing which really teared me up was the fact that I broke up with my ex-girlfriend. That itself wouldnt be that bad, but
I knew that she did not have any contact or friends at all, while having a really terrible life in general. Since I obviously wouldn't lie about
loving her, I had to break up.
Things are getting better though, as I can see from how she manages her life without me (same school).
"Hey, Kymiro sounds like a reasonable, friendly and intelligent person!
I hope he'll have a great life with lots of friends!"

- No one ever

becka.meme
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Re: Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

Post by becka.meme » Mon Jan 02, 2017 8:49 pm

Well in the time span of November to the end of December (remind you my birthday is Christmas and I do mean end as the worst happened December 31) I lost my great uncle, my grandmother who I am very close to died, I found I had to move from the only place I really know and start over in Kansas of all places. I left all my friends and my boyfriend. At my new job my manager yells at me constantly (currently looking for new job) and my boyfriend broke up with me saying he no longer loved me and he's already pretty much replaced me and it's been like three days. But hey.... I'm breathing right? :roll:
~Becka :)

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Epic_Rager
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Post by Epic_Rager » Mon Jan 02, 2017 8:58 pm

becka.meme wrote:Well in the time span of November to the end of December (remind you my birthday is Christmas and I do mean end as the worst happened December 31) I lost my great uncle, my grandmother who I am very close to died, I found I had to move from the only place I really know and start over in Kansas of all places. I left all my friends and my boyfriend. At my new job my manager yells at me constantly (currently looking for new job) and my boyfriend broke up with me saying he no longer loved me and he's already pretty much replaced me and it's been like three days. But hey.... I'm breathing right? :roll:
You'll make it through this (: Stay positive and be strong!
Eh. I tried.

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Re: Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

Post by Alexcarr » Tue Jan 03, 2017 9:58 pm

My step dad was arrested for child porn.

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Re: Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

Post by KatHughes » Wed Jan 04, 2017 10:39 am

I found out threw a friend by dad was sleeping with my ex boyfriends ( Him as well being my first love and his mom was my moms bestfriend) on the same day my brother who now lives with us found out hes getting a divorice 2016 was a bad year :(

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Re: Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

Post by KiLlErUnIcOrN » Wed Jan 04, 2017 10:49 am

The worst thing that ever happened to me... I moved about two years ago. We'd been renting out a house for as long as I could remember, but our landlord kicked us out because he wanted to sell the property. So, for nearly an entire summer, we stayed with our papa Ray in a pretty secluded area, and we all slept in his living room. Every weekday, when we woke up, our parents would be gone from work.
I was 12 or 13 at the time it happened, but one day, I woke up and my brothers right hand was down the front of my pants, and his left hand was up my shirt.
We don't talk anymore.

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Re: Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

Post by leeyahboyy » Wed Jan 04, 2017 12:26 pm

Raped by my ex

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Re: Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

Post by Marai » Wed Jan 04, 2017 1:26 pm

The worst thing that happened to me was when I was 11. I got bullied at school and had no friends. One day, I went home and cried in my bed. One of my family members thought I was being stupid and cried because of my first world problems, so he punched me repeatedly. I felt worthless and wanted to kill myself, but now everything is awesome.

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Post by iraitha » Wed Jan 04, 2017 1:32 pm

Probably not fair to may of you - some or your stories are... oh, god. It's difficult, but I'd say I was born.
Life itself is okay, but I can't find my place. It is me, I'm a failure.
And then I was in a situation where I could try to do something good, but betray my friend OR respect her decisions and try to be with her and be loyal and try to be loyal. I thought the second option is more safe, and I had no idea what my potential effort (betrayal) would bring - maybe nothing.
So I've never told the truth - the whole truth and now it's haunting me, because maybe I could've saved her life. I want to believe I've done everything possible at the moment
Aquarius: 'I don't work with liars. It's not a moral thing, it's a safety issue.'
I believe in The Satanic Temple's Seven Tenets.

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Re: Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened To You

Post by Daytona » Wed Jan 04, 2017 1:51 pm

I'll let you take your pick:
1. I was raped around the age of eight.
2. My stepfather choked me for jokingly locking him out of the house when I was nine. (My mom thought locking him out was funny too, but she never did anything when I told her what he did.
3. My father died when I was eleven after a week in the hospital when he crashed someone else's ATV. He was trying to fix it and was drunk at the same time.
4. My mother left me to go do drugs with her sister when I was twelve. This left me at home to fend for myself, as my stepfather was a few states away working on construction. I rationed my meals out to choosing among one sandwich/two pieces of bread, one bowl of rice, or one packet of ramen for supper. I ate breakfast and lunch at school until the lady at the office told me I had no money to eat there anymore, and my friends would give me their food scraps. I was extremely underweight due to that, and I was made fun of for being anorexic. I was also made fun of for smelling terrible considering the water in the house was shut off, so I could not shower nor wash my clothes. During this time I also got my first period, but luckily there were some pads in my dresser from a health class. I lived on my own for about a year before my aunt came to get me after she found out CPS was going to put me in a foster home. That day I was planning on killing myself by walking outside until I was too far away to make it home before I froze to death, since it was February and that was the only way I thought I could kill myself without being able to back out of it last minute. In fact, my aunt found me on my way to go see my best friend for the last time. If it weren't for her, I'd surely be dead.
5. I was abused by my first two boyfriends. The first was not as bad as the second. The second boyfriend manipulated me in almost every way. If you go look up emotional abuse, chances are, everything listed will have been something he's done. I would go into details but it'd probably be longer than #4. Long story short I was convinced I loved him and he loved me, but everyone else saw and kept telling me otherwise.
6. My cousin got most of my high school friends to think I was a terrible person and that two of her exes cheated on her with me. They all began to bully me and call me a slut before I had even experienced any consensual intimacy yet. This spurred me to go to college in my senior year to get away from their toxicity.
7. This one is just a bonus because I think people need to stop thinking this way. My current boyfriend told me I sounded like a slut when I told him I had seen a video about a three-way relationship (by Onision, of course) and that I was interested in one because I'm pansexual and would like to experience a relationship with a woman as well considering I've only had boyfriends. He apologized a few days later and promised to never call me a slut ever again.
There's a lot more that's happened to me, but those are the ones that come to my mind first. Thank you for reading. :) I'm in a much better place away from all these traumas now.

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