My nick name is Lina actually ^-^sugarprozac wrote:my name is lina (she/her). i dont know when exactly i discovered myself, because i dont know if im gay or bisexual. the guys i like are usually androgynous and unattainable (celebrities). im sticking with "bisexual" now. i dont really care. i came out to my parents but they didnt really care. i think my mom thinks its a phase; she teases me a lot about liking girls. the only struggles i have relating to my orientation are if im gay or bi. people ask me which one and i dont know what to say. i guess ill figure it out.
I know how you feel. I try to not put labels on myself and just go with the flow. Since I change from gay to bi to straight so much, I haven't come out to anyone, and to me, it doesn't really matter if they know anyway. My friends are strict Christians (one friend being a religious Catholic) and they would probably accept me yet get weirded out and refrain from contacting me. My parents won't care, but either way, it's important not to force labels on yourself. You have your whole life to figure it out. And with my gender, I have no idea, as it seems to change a lot too. I am yet to do research on the different genders and maybe get a hint.
I just try to remember that figuring it out is mostly for my own sake rather than others.